20: How to Maggie Arvin

How to: Be open, and Comfortable, with yourself.
When I saw the summary of this post, I immediately thought of cooking, but to be honest, I'm a lot more experienced in the art of being yourself.... sorta.
Step 1~ Accept it. Its literally impossible for other people to accept you if you don't accept yourself. Whether it be sexuality, gender, a personality trait, or anything else, you have to understand and accept it yourself first. Its hard, and it takes time to understand, so don't rush yourself.
Step 2~ Start small. Be open with a few friends around you. Unless they are someone you don't need in your life, they'll be accepting and understanding. WARNING!!! Not everyone will accept it. It sucks, and people suck, but you don't need them. Surround yourself with people who care enough about you to love you for who you are.
Step 3~ Don't Rush. I know this isn't really a completable task, but don't rush yourself. This process as a whole is hard enough, don't push it, and don't let other people push you. This is your life, move at your own speed.
Step 4~ IM UGLY, AND IM PROUD... no, but really let the world know. Once you are comfortable with the idea, be proud, and show it off. You are an individual, and you are important. Don't be afraid to be proud of yourself. Let people call you big headed, but don't be scared to show yourself off.
Step 5~ Be happy. Love yourself. Don't let anyone bring you down.