plastics -catherine van tatenhove

"Don't love something that doesn't love you back." This, spoken by a man who insists I see truth in every clique that's ever been scoffed at. This same man, being my dad believes that hidden in these dismissed trite phrases is no less than where the keys to every lock, the answer to every problem, and the advice for every situation lies. Because of this I find myself rolling my eyes and, well, ignoring the life advice my dad gives me. However, recent events lead me to the aforementioned quote. "Don't love an object that doesn't love you back." This resonated with me because I have heard over and over that it's people that matter not objects. We all know this. We all try to keep this in mind when finding ourselves left disappointed and empty when something else in our life gives way. It's inevitable. But, it doesn't have to be devastating. Surrounding yourself with people who are positive, different, and loving individuals is an essential foundation. However, truthfully, even these people will fail you. But, when you love an object that can't love you back you don't own it. It owns you. So, my dad's probably right when he offers up advice like, "Your passion will find you," and, "Live a life so you never have to work a day in your life." And, I think I just might start listening.